NdinguCheng Qiguang we-Viality Bar, kwaye umxholo endiwuzisayo ukuba sabelane naye namhlanje uthi: akukho minyaka ingcono, kuphela ukucinga okulungileyo. Abanye abantu basenokuzibuza, yeyiphi eyona minyaka ilungileyo ebomini? Ngaba bubuntwana obungenankathalo, okanye ulutsha olunomoya, okanye ukuguga okuzolileyo. Mna ngokwam ndikholelwa ukuba akukho minyaka ilungileyo ebomini, kuphela eyona ngqondo ilungileyo.
Ndazalelwa kusapho olukude ezilalini, kukho abazalwana noodade abaninzi entsatsheni, kwaye mna ndingoyena mncinane, ekhaya rhoqo ngabazalwana noodade abadala kunye noosisi "bully", kodwa okoko nje ndiphambukile, ndiza kuya kubazali bam ndikhalaze, ndifuna ukufumana ukhathalelo kunye nothando kubazali bam, ngoko rhoqo kwindawo yokudlala ndakhula. Ngenxa yentlupheko yosapho lwam, ndasiyeka isikolo kwangethuba ndaza ndahlala ekhaya de kwaba neminyaka eli-17 ubudala. Ngeliza lohlaziyo kunye nokuvuleka kunye nomsebenzi wokufudukela kwelinye ilizwe, ndaya emazantsi eGuangdong kunye namaqabane amaninzi. Ngeli xesha, imeko yengqondo ngokuthe ngcembe yatshintsha, kuba ngaphandle kwendlu, bahlala bedibana nezinto ezingonwabi kunye nezibuhlungu, kwaye abafuni ukuvumela abazali bakhathazeke, ngalo lonke ixesha ukuya kwikhaya ukuya kuxela uxolo, baya kuthi kuhle kakhulu. Njengoko ndikhula, into yokuqala endibafowunela ngayo ngoku kukubaxelela ukuba banyamekele impilo yabo, kwaye bathi mandisebenze. Ngolu hlobo ke ndiyathemba ukuba ixhego lingabuchitha kamnandi ubuxhego balo, ixhego linethemba lokuba ndingasebenza ndinoxolo lwengqondo, omnye nomnye agcine ubunzima ezintliziyweni zabo, athule anyamezele yedwa, angavumeli omnye akhathazeke.
Kukho uhlobo lokufudumala abantu abangaze balulibale, oko kukuthi, ukuxhomekeka komphefumlo. Kwimfundo yabantwana, ndithenge indlu kwisihlalo sedolophu, ndifuna ukuba abazali bam bafudukele kwindawo yokuhlala kunye nam, kodwa abafuni ukuthi kulungile ukuhlala emaphandleni, kungekuphela nje indawo ebanzi yombono, umoya omtsha, kodwa unokutyala imifuno, ukondla iinkukhu, ukutyelela ukuncokola, ndicinga ukuba kunjalo, kwi-county engazi, kungcono ukuhlala ukhululekile emaphandleni. Ngoko ke ndingabuyela kuphela ukuze ndichithe iintsuku ezimbalwa kunye nabo eholideyini minyaka le. Ndikhumbula ukuba xa iNtwasahlobo ibuye yabuya, ndahlala ekhaya iintsuku ezimbalwa, ngenxa yokuphela kweholide, ukuze ndibuyele enkampanini emsebenzini, (lathi izulu lalibetha kancinci, umama wandijonga ndikhwele kwisihlalo se-county ukuze ndilungise imithwalo yam, wathatha igxathu elikhubekisayo, wandithumela elalini, ndithe xa ndisiya kude ukuba ndijonge ngasemva, wabe esamile ejonge ngasezilalini. "Mama! Buyela umva! Ndiza kubuya ndizokubona xa ndikhululekile" .Andazi nokuba wayendivile, kodwa ndiqinisekile ukuba wayeyiva le nto ndandiyithethayo, eli lizwi, ndisoyika / ngomnye unyaka ukudibana, ngelo xesha intliziyo inzima kakhulu, nokuba kukho zonke iintlobo zentliziyo, kodwa ukuze ndiphile, okanye ndiqhubele phambili.
Endleleni yobomi, siya kudibana nezinto ezininzi ezingathandekiyo kunye namava, asenokuba zizinto ezincinci ezingenamsebenzi. Ngeli xesha, kufuneka sizole kwaye sicinge ngayo. Iingxaki zinokusizisela isimo sengqondo esibi, kodwa isimo sengqondo esibi asikwazi ukusombulula ingxaki. Ngaphandle kokuba uqale uvume ukoyiswa, enyanisweni / ubomi bethu bunje, singcwatywe kwimiqobo, amava entliziyo.
Kutshanje, bendifunda ka-Inamori Kazuo ethi "Living Law" kwaye ndiziva nzulu. Ndandikade ndixakeke kakhulu ubomi, ndidiniwe ngumsebenzi. Bonke ubunzima budliwe, kodwa ubomi abukafikeleli kwiziphumo ebezilindelekile. Uxakekile yonke imihla, kodwa ungayazi intsingiselo yokuxakeka/phi? Ukusebenza kude kube sebusuku, iziphumo zomsebenzi zincinci, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha akukho nto yenziwayo, kodwa umzimba uziva udiniwe kakhulu. Ndikhumbula uMnumzana Inamori wathi, "Ukubaluleka kokukrakra / kukukwazi ukugxila ixesha elide kwinjongo ethile, kusisiseko sokuzithiba, ukuzingisa, kunye nokukwazi ukucinga ngokunzulu, xa uvakalelwa kukuba / ungenakunyamezeleka, kodwa kunye nokusebenza nzima, uzimisele ukuqhubela phambili, oku kuya kutshintsha ubomi bakho." Ndiyaqonda ngokuthe ngcembe ukuba ukubandezeleka kukomeleza intliziyo, ukulola umphefumlo, into ekufuneka siyenzile kukuhlakulela indalo, sidibane nabantu ukuze sihlakulele intliziyo.
Ixesha lokuposa: Nov-17-2023
